Richard Jefferson joins Stefani for a Messy Talk! The 18 year NBA league veteran, NBA Champion, podcast host for Road Trippin’, color commentator, NCAA title runner up, on air host, Olympic bronze medalist shows up and tells us how he does what he does. He uses grown people language and keeps it real on where it started, how it’s going and what keeps him driving forward. With Richard, you always know it’s gonna be funny, can’t wait for you to hear how annoying he really is! Thanks for coming on Messy Talks you big time celeb!

Stefani is joined by Susie Walton again for her first Messy Talk season 2 appearance! What is it about the Holidays, that make struggles, disagreements and communication problems within a family dynamic so much more intense?! Have you ever found yourself dreading spreading the holiday cheer every year. You are in Luck! Sus gives us some tips, tools and tricks for how you can manage yourself, even if your family is not doing the same.

Stefani sits down with her best friend Bre Walton, to talk about the evolution of their friendship. We talk about the power of communication and having hard conversations with your chosen family of friends. Distance, marriage, babies, different stages of life, things we only tell each other are only a few of the gems you are sure to hear. She's the golden to my girl, and I'm happy for you to hear how we do life together!

Feelings of discomfort often coexist with conflict, but does that mean there has to be resolution? Pam reveals why living in a society hooked on “conflict-resolution” does little to spark curiosity, facilitate personal growth, or support self-reflection.

Stefani is joined by one of her best friends Tiffany Keller Mackovic for an honest evaluation of postpartum depression (PPD) and the evolution of her early journey into motherhood.  Tiffany talks about her postpartum depression diagnosis and how this changed her landscape of life.  We talk about being a friend to someone during their darkest days and the responsibilities we have to each other as fellow Mothers in caring for each other.  

F*#% Cancer! Stefani talks with Nicole Santos about how cancer has changed her life. Nicole walks us thru how they learned her 5 year old son, Carter, had Leukemia. She shares trials that each family member had to battle, how she maintained her own care while having to be strong for her family. The hardship, the uncertainty, the hope, the community and innately knowing that their family will always be BETTER TOGETHER!

Join Stefani as she talks to Roxy Jean, an intuitive health and fitness coach. Roxy is an Anti-diet health coach who specializes in helping you overcome self sabotage, so that you can heal your relationship with food and yourself so that you can live in a body you love. Get ready, we are WORKING IT OUT!

Stefani welcomes you back to season 2 with an episode about what the hell it means when you ask someone what they do? What it means to embrace yourself at all levels of your success, and to find comfort in the unknown. We missed you! We cannot wait to continue to ask the hard questions, do the work and get MESSY!

What’s the secret to aging gracefully? Pam speaks to Mary Ann Patterson about the value of curiosity, movement, acceptance, and human connection at any age.

Stefani is joined by Dr. Morgan Oberstein for an honest conversation about being a recovering “Achiever”, the twist she puts on "forgiving" and stepping into your own power. Owner of Home Within Chiropractic in Phoenix, AZ, author of "Healing Along the Way” podcast and new Mom, Morgan shares with us her most valuable lessons on a life that is all your own and the courage it takes everyday to step into your own power.

Have you ever felt lost in a position of leadership? Pam speaks to Erik Lingvall about the unexpected gifts to be gleaned when we can assess, adapt, and advance in the midst of life’s challenges.

What’s better than a New Year? An honest evaluation of the old year!!!! Join Stefani as she recaps 2021 as ‘The year in which her body decided to reset back to factory settings.' Sometimes you don’t get to “see and feel” what happened until you survive it, leave it and laugh about it.

Can we receive the gift of growth in the aftermath of a broken promise? Pam speaks to Leigh Onorato about the wisdom, grace and personal development that can be found in broken promises, if we’re willing to stop and listen.

Have you been taught your whole life that a mess is to be avoided? Or that it is a by-product of something gone wrong? Join Stefani as she explains her shift in perspective and beginning realization that the “messy” feeling is a sign that she was working towards a better understanding of ALL that she was capable of! Mental. Emotional. Spiritual. Self-reliance is literally a MESS. The MESS gets Messy, when YOU do the work…. Let’s get to work.

Do triggers show up to teach us more about ourselves? Pam speaks to Christy Deniston about the wisdom of looking at personal triggers as informative “gems” that can help us expand, heal and grow.

Is there wisdom to be found in the aftermath of divorce? Pam speaks to Glenn Goodstein about enduring the hardships, recovering, and rediscovering your true self after divorce.

If you knew that you were always “on purpose”, would you look at challenges differently? Pam speaks to our innate magnificence and the immense wisdom in our emotions, vulnerability, and acceptance of ourselves and others.

Is it possible to engage with your failures in a constructive and valuable way? Pam speaks to Joshua King about the wisdom of holding your failures lightly in order to grow from them.

Do we benefit from surrendering to life’s challenges rather than resisting them? Pam speaks to Mika Barber about adversity as an opportunity for growth and the ways in which we can cultivate resilience through the act of ritual.

What if the function of doubt is not to discourage, but rather to support us, strengthen us, and help us expand? What if “doubt” is not an enemy, but an ally? Pam reflects on her own experience with the unexpected wisdom of doubt.